Hai, and Salam Ramadhan Kareem Benzema.
So, before we move on to the point of this post, nak promote kejap. Kepada orang muslim yang tinggal kat Kota Samarahan, tak kisah student ke ape, I suggest you all to buy food kat gerai Nasi Ayam Percik/Thai or Nasi Abe. Murah, quantiti banyak, sedap. RM 4.00 je, berbanding gerai lain yang jual nasi ayam penyet or whatever yg harga between rm5-9 mahal gila babeng.
Ok, back to the topic.
Few hours ago, this thought popped up while I was eating Nasi Ayam Percik (so now you know why I tetiba nak promote food diorang hahahahahahaha). I have a thought about friendship and marriage or relationship or whatever.
Some of us think that friendship is more important than lover relationship, and other vice versa. Well, in my opinion, we must know how to shift the balance between those two things that I've mentioned just now. Because, we will always face changes in life, today we might say to ourself "friendship is more important than lover relationship", then in future, things won't be the same as the past.
During our teenage/young adult phase, some of us hate it when one of our friend spend a lot of their time with their lover. It's okay, that is normal, I've experience that kind of situation. We don't have the right to judge their decision. And what if in the future, they both married, and of course he/she will focus more on his/her family instead of their friend. Will you get mad if they decide to do so?
Things will never be the same in the future, no matter how close your friendship with others, someday it will change. But, if you do things the right way, those friendship that you hold dearly during your younger self might last forever. So, learn how to manage that balance. Don't ever judge their decision. Don't play with their trust and feeling. Don't ever lie to them. Be fair to them. Your lover is you friend too. Be mature.
Cheers,
A.
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