Being honest

After watching this anime, I felt like.... I've done the wrong things about 'jaga hati manusia sekeliling'. Yeah, words sometimes hurts people, but lying just nak jaga hati orang, tu lagi salah. Because you telling a wrong fact to someone and it might cause some trouble for them in future. FUCK ME RIGHT! I ALWAYS DO THIS! Tipu so that org tu tak terasa konon, padahal aku simpan apa yang aku rasa, the truth, then semua benda melimpah keluar dari botol sebab banyak sangat benda yg tersimpan sampai botol tak muat, last2 pecah. Lagi2 masa tu aku tak terfikir side effect kat org yang aku dah tipu.

Yeah, sometimes it hurts when hearing the truth, but are you willing to suffer later because of lies that someone tells to you in order to avoid hurting your feeling? No, right? But in reality people kept do this things because they sick of watching people react to the truth. Most of them can't face the truth, then they kept bitching around about it.

So, from now on, I'm just going to be honest, not that brutal honest, cause it can brutally hurts people lol.

finally the bottle cracked and shattered

Have you ever bottle all those feeling of sadness, regret, disappointment, guilt, and everything that related to emotional wrecking feelings? I usually do that whenever people make me sad, used me for their own good, bullied me, laugh at my appearance, etc. The lists are endless. That's me, I bottle things up, I don't let myself to show that negative emotions. I just show the positive emotions, the happy me. I started to bottled my feelings since highschool. Then, in my third year of studying in UNIMAS, the bottle cracked a little bit, then finally it shattered because of that particular song. The interesting part is the song is not a sad song, what makes me crying is the meaning of the songs. I said to myself "After all these years of enduring, now you finally cry." I think a lot at that time when I was traveling back to my hometown. The songs is about a person who felt that he is a useless person, the one who always giving hard time to everyone. But at the same time, he try to improve himself, so he try to distance himself from his family and friends, so that he can learn how to be useful to himself first. Then year pass by and he met his friends. "how are you doing" he said to them. He's a changed man. He thanked his friend for always supporting him when he was a useless person. And that makes me cry. I felt like the songs is dedicated to me. The one who always disappointing his parent, gave a lot of hard time to them. But compare to the guy in the songs, I didn't try to improve myself to be a better person. I cried a lot at that time "what a disappointment you are" I said to myself.